The most common thing friends say when they find out I have cancer is "just let me know what I can do - really. Anything you need." And people mean it, too. I've had offers for child care from friends as far away as CA. This "what can I do" sentiment is extremely generous, and much appreciated.
Of course you don't have to do anything - your thoughts and prayers are what count. But I did think of something that you can do: burn me a CD of your favorite tunes. I'm going to have plenty of down time at the end of my radiation treatments, and I think it would be very interesting to see what everyone is listening to these days. Surprise me. I'll make a compilation MP3 DVD at the end and send it back to everyone that contributes.
(If you live around Boston, you can join the "cook a meal" program at http://www.foodtidings.com/SignUp.aspx?ScheduleGuid=7a234353-
b21d-4075-a00c-c2acf6a14914.)
Saturday, July 19, 2008
Half Way Through Induction Update...
Just had a progress check yesterday (7/18) with my doctors. They compared a CT scan from before I started treatment to a new CT I did on Thursday (7/17). Both the tonsil and lymph node tumors have shrunk by 50% or more, which is what they want to see at this stage. What does this mean? It means we stay on the current plan (as described in my previous post). So this Tuesday I will have my last round of "induction" chemotherapy, and then three weeks later (8/11) will start radiation/chemotherapy for 7 weeks.
Psychologically, is great to see the reduction in tumor size. It feels pretty good to see clear signs of progress, and it is certainly a relief to think that this isn't spreading. But there is still a long way to go, and a lot of things that have to go right. I asked my doctor this week when would be the earliest we would know if we really beat this stuff. Turns out he likes to wait about three months after treatment ends before taking a final scan to see if anything is left. So that means the earliest I could get the "all clear" sign is around Jan 1. Hmmmm...... maybe time to start thinking about a New Year's Eve party?
Thanks again to everyone for the emails, cards, thoughts, meals, books, tunes, toasts, calls, and by all means, prayers. Keep them coming.
Psychologically, is great to see the reduction in tumor size. It feels pretty good to see clear signs of progress, and it is certainly a relief to think that this isn't spreading. But there is still a long way to go, and a lot of things that have to go right. I asked my doctor this week when would be the earliest we would know if we really beat this stuff. Turns out he likes to wait about three months after treatment ends before taking a final scan to see if anything is left. So that means the earliest I could get the "all clear" sign is around Jan 1. Hmmmm...... maybe time to start thinking about a New Year's Eve party?
Thanks again to everyone for the emails, cards, thoughts, meals, books, tunes, toasts, calls, and by all means, prayers. Keep them coming.
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Three Words You Never Want To Hear
"You've got cancer."
Heard those on May 21st, 2008. Nice belated birthday present (from the day before, May 20). Here's what's up since then:
The cancer is in my left tonsil and lymph node on left side of neck. No idea what caused it, and it is pretty rare.
There are four things you hope for if you get cancer. 1. you find it early. 2. you get the kind that doesn't tend to spread. 3. you get the kind that is very responsive to available treatments. 4. you live near cutting-edge cancer treatment hospitals.
I have 2, 3, and 4 on my side, which is actually very good. One doctor told me "if you had to pick a cancer to get anywhere in your head or neck, you'd definitely pick tonsil cancer." Of course he put a very big "if" in that sentence... ;>
Here's the treatment plan. Phase I is three infusions of chemotherapy, three weeks apart. This means they pump me full of several deadly chemicals which target fast growing cells. Then they wait three weeks for me to recover, and then do it again. And then one more time. Phase II is radiation, five days a week, for 7 weeks, with a side order of chemo once a week. So we're talking about 16 weeks total for treatment, and something like 2-4 weeks of recovery at the end of Phase II.
I'm currently on day 8 of my second chemo cycle, and it is going pretty much like the first. That phrase "target fast growing cells" I used above means cancer cells, but it also means your entire food processing system (starting with your tongue, believe it or not) and then some. Overall, the side effects are not that bad. The most unexpected was bouts of uncontrollable hiccups (sounds funny, but not fun). The worst may be a completely screwed up sense of taste. The hair loss you will undoubtedly find amusing, and I'll post a photo of that one of these days.
Initial results are good - the cancer has shrunk in both my tonsil and neck. Still very early in the process, however, and a long road ahead. The side effects of radiation are much worse, but I'll save that for another post.
I'm still working, but am not traveling. Another side effect is a suppressed immune system, so those airborne virus labs called airplanes are not a good idea right now. Fortunately, my job has always required me to be able to work from literally anywhere, and right now anywhere = home office.
The outpouring of support has been tremendous. Thank you to everyone who has helped out, sent cards, cooked meals, called, emailed, etc. Everyone's thoughts and prayers are very much appreciated.
michaelfhayes@verizon.net
Heard those on May 21st, 2008. Nice belated birthday present (from the day before, May 20). Here's what's up since then:
The cancer is in my left tonsil and lymph node on left side of neck. No idea what caused it, and it is pretty rare.
There are four things you hope for if you get cancer. 1. you find it early. 2. you get the kind that doesn't tend to spread. 3. you get the kind that is very responsive to available treatments. 4. you live near cutting-edge cancer treatment hospitals.
I have 2, 3, and 4 on my side, which is actually very good. One doctor told me "if you had to pick a cancer to get anywhere in your head or neck, you'd definitely pick tonsil cancer." Of course he put a very big "if" in that sentence... ;>
Here's the treatment plan. Phase I is three infusions of chemotherapy, three weeks apart. This means they pump me full of several deadly chemicals which target fast growing cells. Then they wait three weeks for me to recover, and then do it again. And then one more time. Phase II is radiation, five days a week, for 7 weeks, with a side order of chemo once a week. So we're talking about 16 weeks total for treatment, and something like 2-4 weeks of recovery at the end of Phase II.
I'm currently on day 8 of my second chemo cycle, and it is going pretty much like the first. That phrase "target fast growing cells" I used above means cancer cells, but it also means your entire food processing system (starting with your tongue, believe it or not) and then some. Overall, the side effects are not that bad. The most unexpected was bouts of uncontrollable hiccups (sounds funny, but not fun). The worst may be a completely screwed up sense of taste. The hair loss you will undoubtedly find amusing, and I'll post a photo of that one of these days.
Initial results are good - the cancer has shrunk in both my tonsil and neck. Still very early in the process, however, and a long road ahead. The side effects of radiation are much worse, but I'll save that for another post.
I'm still working, but am not traveling. Another side effect is a suppressed immune system, so those airborne virus labs called airplanes are not a good idea right now. Fortunately, my job has always required me to be able to work from literally anywhere, and right now anywhere = home office.
The outpouring of support has been tremendous. Thank you to everyone who has helped out, sent cards, cooked meals, called, emailed, etc. Everyone's thoughts and prayers are very much appreciated.
michaelfhayes@verizon.net
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